weddings are nice because they give you cause to dream about yourself.
it’s wedding season now; i have four more to go and after tonight i am able to look more forward to them then i was before. weddings are out of body experiences i think; or rather, out of self experiences. you can take a step back at weddings – and a step forward. and dream.
also, it is a great way to be a purely giving person during that span of time, and by giving purely and not thinking of yourself, you can have an amazing time – you’re making the bride and groom and family happy and for awhile, you forget your issues, which frankly, are stupid issues anyway once you hit the ‘real’ world.