Over seven years here, and you know what? It’s time to own it.
Way to own it, Yosef Adest!
And check out the bloopers for Sh*t Anglos in Israel Say. Great job, guys!
[Psst, Adest lives here]
Visiting my hometown this week: Staten Island.
Need I say more? So much opportunity: the landfill, the sanitation building, New Jersey, the beach, American cash, the natives, the tanning salons… But I ran out of time and good weather.
Week 8: Dirty
There was a Snooki the day before, but I messed up and forgot to take it so I settled for Paris. Who doesn’t settle for Paris, though?
I’m panicking. I’m even kind of shaking. I know it’s ridiculous, but then again, I really don’t.
Bebe and I are leaving tonight on a two-week trip to New York and Florida to visit family. I’ve been really looking forward to this trip for weeks. It was an ‘on a whim’ thing, and I think I’ve been more anxious about life here than I admit. I really need the break.
I figured, when I booked it, it would be a quick and easy thing, and so I’d opt out of bringing Koala. He could stay with his abba (they are very close) and have some fun dad-son time while staying mostly on schedule.
Turns out, you can’t ‘opt-out’ of anything having to do with your kids.
Since yesterday (after no less than three mothers who I spoke to looked at me like I’m insane for doing it) I’ve been overcome with what feels like panic and fear. Am I screwing him up? Is he going to have mommy issues? Am I abandoning him in his little eyes? He’s not even three yet. Is this a mistake? Am I horrible, selfish mother?
Then I realize – this is it. This is the guilt. The real maternal kind. Anything I thought was guilt until now was the stuff of playthings. This – this shaking, this nausea, this panic – it’s guilt.
And when I pull away the dark curtains of despair, just for a moment, I see this -
One of the best things about Purim is the idea that you can enjoy the humor, the sass, the tongue-in-cheek quality of opposites. You can turn the world upside-down, you can defy the laws of gravity with a sprinkle of humor and darkness.
So why was I so amused to find, in Beitar Illit, my charedi neighbor-town, a mask resembling no one other than the secular god of science, Albert Einstein himself?
I suppose it could be an angry old man. Or an angry old anti-Semite. Or an angry old Haman, if he had continued living past the pole.
Either way, it made me smile.
The innocence of babes is alive and well… even if it’s for just a few short years.
Koala and I were looking at a book last night. He pointed to a picture of a brown-skinned teacher.
Pointing lower, “what’s that?”
“What’s the brown?”
I’ve been wondering when he’d ask.
“That’s her skin.” I rubbed my arms and face. “Do you see your skin? It’s everywhere.”
He rubbed his face.
“Her skin is brown. What color is your skin?”
Koala looked at his arms and hands.
“Ok… what color is Bebe’s?”
He looks over at her on the floor. “Green.”
I laugh. “There are different colors. But everybody has skin.”
Take ulpan home with you with Stick Around.
The story behind Stick Around goes something like this:
“Aaaahhh!!!” my wife yelled, and even though it’s not a word, I could easily understand that she was yelling in English. As a new immigrant she was loving life in Israel, but there was one huge frustrating obstacle: Hebrew.
It’s a rite of passage for olim: the language barrier, climbing over the language barrier, falling backwards behind the language barrier, and so on. We have good days, bad days, and oh-my-god-I’m-tired-of-sounding-crazy days.
So this gingy huz-wife team took their own experience and turned it into a product: Stick Around. For thirty bucks, they’re a set of over 500 Hebrew vocabulary stickers to stick around your house on relevant objects to slowly osmosis your way to recognizable Hebrew skills. And that way… you’ll more likely stick. around.
Good luck – b-hatz-la-cha – בהצלחה